Happy Birthday Mama!
You can never fully realize what pain you give your parents unless you become a parent yourself. I can attest to this statement. When I was in a lot younger, it annoys me when my mom meddles too much with the things I do. She seems to want me in her sight all the time. I feel like she's watching my every move.
When I ask her why she does that, she said she's just worried about me all the time. I had always wanted a little space from her. I guess at that point, especially when I was in my teens, I find it hard to understand her. My mom and I would argue a lot. Although I know she loves me, she sometimes gets on my nerves.
Fast forward 2004, I became a mother. When I experience the pain of giving birth, I was calling my mother's name. When it was my turn to be a mom, that's when I understood her more. Although I'm not much of a pain in the ass (like my brothers lol), I gave her headaches too. Happy Birthday Mama, I would like you to know that I appreciate you a lot for being a great mom and a friend to me.
When I ask her why she does that, she said she's just worried about me all the time. I had always wanted a little space from her. I guess at that point, especially when I was in my teens, I find it hard to understand her. My mom and I would argue a lot. Although I know she loves me, she sometimes gets on my nerves.
Fast forward 2004, I became a mother. When I experience the pain of giving birth, I was calling my mother's name. When it was my turn to be a mom, that's when I understood her more. Although I'm not much of a pain in the ass (like my brothers lol), I gave her headaches too. Happy Birthday Mama, I would like you to know that I appreciate you a lot for being a great mom and a friend to me.
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Happy Birthday to your Mom. Yes sometimes the only way we can understand why people do what they do is to be in their place. Now you know.
Have a good day.
I never realized how much my mom loved me, and truly how you do love them all the "same but different". On the flip side, it makes my relationship with my biological father worse, because now I understand even less how you can hurt your own children.
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